Divorce & Family Law in North Carolina

North Carolina requires a minimum one-year separation period before filing for divorce, one of the longest mandatory waiting periods in the United States. During separation, couples must live in separate residences — occasional overnight visits can reset the clock. Filing fees are $225. Uncontested divorces (called "absolute divorces") cost $3,500-$6,000 when all issues are resolved. Contested divorces with equitable distribution claims average $11,000 and can reach $35,000. North Carolina handles property division (equitable distribution) and alimony as separate claims from the divorce itself — these must be filed before the divorce is final or they are waived forever. Alimony in North Carolina considers marital misconduct (including adultery), which can bar a dependent spouse from receiving support if they committed illicit sexual behavior. Post-separation support is a temporary measure available while alimony claims are pending. Mecklenburg County (Charlotte) and Wake County (Raleigh) have the highest volume of divorce filings.